Telka's Relationship Tools Page

 These 20 relationship questions guide you toward using the tools on this site.

Tired of getting irritated, disappointed and fooled --again? Taking everything personally? Relationship tools help you transition from emotional, dramatic reactions and unrealistic expectations into more logical, rational and reasonable thoughts.  No longer intending to change others, instead, seek to understand.  As you will note, personality types will respond differently to the tools on this website. Some will cooperate with healthier relationships, some will sabotage, tantrum or even sever ties. You can only be your best self, then detach from outcome.  Interested in Personality Disorders? Check out tool #15.  

Descriptions of personality disorders help identify toxic relationships. Compare the disorders below to the 5 basic personality traits listed in Tool #1.  Use these materials to improve your emotional intelligence and reasonable expectations.